I'm Single, Not Picky or High Maintenance

When women lament their single status or worry about the trends which point to ever fewer desirable men available in the dating pool, they are often imagined to be too picky - otherwise they are probably fat or "high maintenance," whatever that means. (Does that mean I am over hanging out in dive bars drinking dollar beers being hit on by unemployed guys who use pick up lines like "wussup?" Or that I now own more heels than flip flops and like to eat out and travel? Well damn, then color me high maintenance I guess).

In my last post I touched on some gender-based financial issues such as that nearly half of all working wives bring home more bacon than their husbands, and that single women under 33 are out-earning their male counterparts.

These factors and others are affecting the courtship and marriage dance in complicated ways. The end result though is that more women are staying single and those who do marry are doing it later and later. With both sexes earning plenty of money and remaining unattached - while crafting their own fun instant gratification lifestyles - well into their 20s and 30s, there is less pressure to wed all around.

Living Almost Large had some very interesting comments to my last post (linked above). I decided to put my response here because it got much too long:

I definitely agree that many women are too picky, and/or too shallow in their preferences when it comes to men. And it does get harder the longer you're single as you develop an identity, a lifestyle, a career, and all kind of other preferences. It seems much easier to couple up young and build/create a life together; merging complicated lives as older individuals is hard, even if the love IS there.

And you're right - most successful men want to feel successful and they work hard enough at their jobs to try to manage a complicated relationship after hours. So many of them DO prefer to date younger, more "flexible" women who are eager to be at their beck and call rather than dealing with an intelligent professional equal who - gasp! - might have an opinion or a desire or two of their own. That doesn't help matters either for those of us who weren't lucky enough to snag one of these guys when we were all young and stupid.

But that successful woman - the one with a career and retirement savings and even with designer clothes - might actually not be a demanding "high maintenance" bitch. She might even be shy or wounded. Or maybe she is content or preoccupied and not trying to land a man thank-you-very-much.

As for me, sure I have preferences: who wouldn't want a guy who earns as much as she does and has similar tastes and education? But honestly the only thing I'm looking for right now is chemistry. I have money, a home, a career, friends, a social calendar. I don't need a guy to give me any of those things. Attraction always mattered most to me, almost to a fault. I dated a hippie musician with zero ambition and a controlling drug addict before I figured out that maybe I should care about a little bit more about other things than passion. And then I loved a great guy who I thought I'd marry but the timing didn't work out on that one. After that I started focusing on everything else but finding love - career, rental properties, this blog, getting my CFP, even my dogs.

I'm not ridiculously picky, but I am busy and opinionated and...well, tired of trying to land a man - or at least of feeling like that SHOULD be the #1 thing on my to do list. In the last couple of years I've dated smart guys, rich guys, good looking guys, and even a couple that were all three, but I just wasn't into it. Sure I could have gone with the flow and batted my eyes and turned some of those into long term relationships. But I don't NEED to - I don't need security or companionship or children. I don't know if I'm bitter and jaded or if I have too many way-too-honest guy friends to trust a man or if I'm not meeting the right men or if I get enough chit chat with people I barely know over restaurant meals in my job...but if the chemistry isn't there and I don't really care whether he calls again, then I'd rather just continue to be single, make my money, travel with my girlfriends, and watch movies with my dogs. Life's too short to fake a connection just because I should be trying to get married at my age.

The problem is that when I'm 35 or so and still doing all this, alone, I worry I'm going to regret having wasted my 20s not finding a husband. And then I probably will want to or have to settle for somebody who I respect but don't adore. And I hate that I already have to dread getting "old" when I truly don't give a damn.

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CHARMING SHOPPES INC (CHRS) (Superstock Investor Stock Scorecard)

Ascena (ASNA) is buying Charming Shoppes (CHRS). The big question is did they overpay? For this we review our upper bound. The answer is no they did not pay the ultimate premium.

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Section 8 Tenant a Known Criminal

One of my tenants has been getting into some trouble with the law. My knowledge of it started the week of Christmas when a housing inspector for the city called me to let me know that they were investigating due to some property damage. The front door appeared to have been kicked in (again), and it was a fire hazard I needed to address immediately.

When they went to inspect for that, they also found the property was in general not being taken good care of. Inside there were piles of clothes - none hung in the closets - people sleeping here and there, and general lack of tidiness. So the tenant was also cited for a "housekeeping violation." She also told me that the water had been cut off 6 months ago, but the tenant was still living there, so they thought she may be stealing water and would be investigating.

She also mentioned that there had been a few complaints nearby about loud parties and that the police had been called out the weekend prior - which I'd never heard anything about. She tentatively told me that I might consider evicting this woman, that she didn't appear to be taking good care of my property. I told her I'd investigate all this and thanked her for the heads up (her only job was to get me to fix the door, after all).

I called my contractor to fix the door and he promised to go over that day.

A few hours later he called me to tell me he was at the property, but couldn't get in because the police were there arresting the tenant - and Child Protective Services was collecting her children.

A few hours after that a detective called me. He said he'd found out the tenant was on housing during the arrest and got my number from my contractor at the scene. He wanted to let me know what was going on. He said the gang unit had been out there the week before and had been watching the property because apparently my tenant's male relatives/friends had been hanging out there and the police had gotten wind of another party being planned. They'd gone over to warn her to cancel it, and had found stolen water meters on the premises.

He recommended that I evict her if I could, and just wanted to let me know all this since I wasn't likely to hear of it otherwise (the rent checks come automatically from the city so if my contractor hadn't been there and the detective hadn't called I may never have heard about all this).

In addition he told me that she had warrants out for two felony probation violations and that they'd been looking for her for 8-9 months. So she was being hauled off to jail. I was shocked and asked how on earth they hadn't managed to locate her since she was on public housing assistance and her address was clearly a matter of public record with the housing department. He expressed his regret about that and more or less made it clear that those two departments maintain separate records and don't really communicate much.

The even MORE shocking thing is that when I contacted the Housing Department to fax them a copy of my lease termination notice, the housing rep for my tenant said it wasn't for sure that my tenant would be kicked out of the housing program and asked if I was sure I wanted to terminate the lease. I demanded angrily to know under what circumstances she thought that our tax dollars should be supporting a woman who had warrants out for her arrest for felony probation violations and who had gang ties and who was stealing utilities from the city and had blatantly and repeatedly failed to maintain my property.

Her response was that it "wasn't for sure" whether she'd lose her Section 8 voucher, and I told her that she certainly wouldn't be remaining in my unit either way.

I'm considering bailing from the whole program now. I currently don't have any other tenants on Section 8, and though overall I've had a good experience with Section 8 tenants, the fact that the system doesn't screen for criminal activity - or even seem to mind it - is shocking and appalling to me as a taxpayer and landlord.

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Mortgage rates are heading absolutely nowhere after early trading in mortgage-backed securities this morning.  The weekly jobless claims report continued its snooze inducing run of numbers that has persisted over the last 90 days or so.  Manufacturing data from the Philadelphia Federal Reserve Bank region was weak as was as was the leading indicators report.  [...]

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Markets Oversold On A Daily Basis (Superstock Investor Morning Matters)

Markets are oversold on a daily basis so it will be important to see how much we can rebound before selling starts again.

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Mish Interview on the "Daily Bell": Rise of Money Metals, Why Credit Matters

On Sunday, May 06, 2012 I gave an Exclusive Interview to the "Daily Bell" with Anthony Wile that I would like to share with my readers.

The Daily Bell is pleased to present this exclusive interview with Mish Shedlock.

Introduction: Mike "Mish" Shedlock blogs at Mish's Global Economic Trend Analysis, for which he has won awards from the New York Times, Time Magazine, Bloomberg, CNBC and Strategist News. Mish is a contributing "professor" blogger at the economic and financial education site Minyanville and offers podcasts every Thursday on HoweStreet. He's a registered investment advisor representative for SitkaPacific. He says that unlike many free-market "Austrians," he emphasizes credit impacts and deflationary trends within larger business-cycle manifestations. When not writing about economics, Mike enjoys photography; 80 of his photos have become magazine and book covers.

Daily Bell: Give us some background.

Mish Shedlock: My background is actually in computer programming and engineering. I worked for banks for 20 years primarily as a computer analyst working on the technical end of applications. I was an assistant vice president for Harris Bank for most of that time. AVP was as high a position as technicians could get. When Bank of Montreal bought out Harris, I left to become a consultant.
Shortly after 9/11, contracts dried up and I was out of work for three years with literally no income. When the economy was doing well, I wasn't. My message at the time was cash is not trash and be prepared to lose your job. Needless to say, few listened.

I started a blog in 2005 hoping to be discovered as an economic writer. Given there are millions of blogs the success of which are near-zero, one might even think such a chance would be impossible since I had no background in either economics or investing.

However, I had some excellent teachers, primarily but not exclusively Austrian-economic minded. A person named Heinz Blasnik from Germany taught me Austrian economic fundamentals. I picked up many ideas about debt from Australian economist Steve Keen. More recently, Michael Pettis from China taught me nearly everything I know about trade. I blended those views into my own model on credit.

I received lots of help from others at numerous spots along the way. Barry Ritholz at the Big Picture Blog promoted some of my material and Calculated Risk created the first template for my blog.

Daily Bell: How did you get interested in investing?

Mish Shedlock: Shortly before I lost my job, I started hanging out on stock message boards. I met some pretty smart minds on a place called Silicon Investor and I ran one of the most popular boards on the Motley Fool.

Daily Bell: Why do people call you "Mish"?

Mish Shedlock: Every bank I worked at formulated user IDs out of a combination of one or two characters from first names and six characters of last names. Thus my login to many banks where I worked was Mishedlo. I used that name on the Motley Fool and Silicon Investor. In stock message chat rooms, people truncated that to "Mish." I thought "Mish" had a nice ring to it and adopted it as my "brand."

Daily Bell: Tell us about your relationship to Sitka Pacific and how it was formed.

Mish Shedlock: Sitka Pacific was founded by Brian McAuley. His background is not stocks or the economy, either. Rather, Brian worked for a biotechnology firm. I met Brian on the Motley Fool in early 2000. At the time he was trading for himself, then himself and family, then friends of family. Once you get above ten, you need a license. He got that license and decided he no longer wanted to work in biotechnology but rather the investment community by putting their needs first. Indeed, Sitka always puts client needs first. That does not mean we will always be right but rather we will never do anything that puts our interests first. I am proud of the fact that our backgrounds are not Wall Street oriented.

Daily Bell: Tell us about Minyanville.

Mish Shedlock: Shortly after I started my blog John Succo, a Minyanville "professor," asked the founder, Todd Harrison, to post my columns. There was some concern by the Minyanville staff that I did not have a Wall Street or hedge fund background. However, eventually, my work stood for itself. I have always believed that being an outsider and not having preconceived notions about money supply, money multipliers, buy-and-hold strategies and efficient market theory (which I think is nonsense) to be to my advantage. I was the first industry outsider (I was not yet at Sitka) to make "professor" status. The term simply means regular contributor.

Daily Bell: What is your relationship to Dollar Collapse?

Mish Shedlock: Many of the ideas I write about come from articles I read elsewhere. Dollar Collapse and Bloomberg were at the top of the list. Currently I get many stories from Financial Times. Also, writers from around the world send me links. "Brisbane Bear" sends me stories every day from Australia. "Bran" sends me links every day from Spain. I get email updates from Michael Pettis in China and from Steen Jakobsen, the chief economist from Saxo bank in Copenhagen, to name a few. Literally I am swamped with links from all over the world. My goal is to make sense of the news. Sometimes I agree with those I quote and sometimes I am very harsh. Either way, I try to add something to the conversation, not just copy a story.

Daily Bell: How were you able to find the time to do so much incisive writing?

Mish Shedlock: When you are out of a job, with no income, you have plenty of time on your hands. That is how it all started. Now blogging and Sitka Pacific are full-time jobs. I am reading and writing 14 hours a day on many days. However, it does not seem like a job. Many times I am laughing my head off at what I write and hope others do, too. One of the best compliments I ever received was when someone asked me to please remind them to not drink coffee while reading my blog. That request came from someone who spit coffee out his nose trying to suppress laughter while reading my blog.

Certainly I am not always humorous. Sometimes I am sarcastic, angry or questioning. There is no particular slant I try for. However, my role is always the same: to make sense out of the news in an educational way that people can easily relate to. I am pleased the New York Times recognized that effort, naming my blog, along with Calculated Risk and the Big Picture, as their number one idea for the year. (See "NYT 10th Annual Year in Ideas - #1 Idea of the Year 'Do-It-Yourself Macroeconomics.")

Daily Bell: Do you consider yourself an Austrian in some sense?

Mish Shedlock: Absolutely I am Austrian. Money supply and credit are paramount in economic analysis. However, many Austrians missed the mark badly by failing to consider credit. To me, inflation is an increase in money supply and credit with credit marked to market. Deflation is the opposite. Those who predicted massive "price inflation" based on rapidly rising base money supply or M2 missed the boat and missed it badly. Many Austrians called for treasury yields to go to the moon. When oil hit $140 in 2008 I called for record low yields across the entire yield curve. Most thought I was crazy. My rationale was based on credit, the demand for more credit and the value of credit on the balance sheets of banks. The demand for credit plunged, the value of debt as an asset on balance sheets plunged and in response, yields plunged.

This set of events was very predictable but many called for hyperinflation based on rapid increase in base money supply and the misguided money multiplier belief that increases in money supply get lent out ten times over. In practice, the money multiplier theory is nonsense and the $1.5 trillion in excess reserves at the Fed proves it. Banks lend under three conditions, all of them required: 1) Banks are not capital impaired. 2) Banks believe they have credit-worthy borrowers. 3) Credit-worthy businesses and individuals want loans. If any of those conditions fail, credit expansion goes nowhere (at best) and is negative if defaults rise.

Except for student loans, credit expansion has indeed gone nowhere in this recovery. I wrote about credit expansion recently, complete with nice charts, in my post, The Real Consumer Credit Story: Virtually No Recovery in Revolving Credit, No Recovery in Non-Revolving Credit.

Daily Bell: What is your position relative to Bill Still, Ellen Brown and others who espouse public central banking?

Mish Shedlock: Should populist Ellen Brown get her way, I would have to rethink my US hyperinflation position. Sadly, Brown is another one of those who understands various problems with the Fed, but proposes a solution that is worse, putting state politicians in charge of printing presses. When push comes to shove, the Fed would protect the banking system. Politicians would not. Moreover, the idea that North Dakota, a small, loosely populated farm state is in good shape because it has a state bank is preposterous. Worse yet, Brown takes that absurd position to the extreme, with a proposal to end the Fed and put California politicians (state politicians in general) in charge of printing money to support union causes. For further discussion please see "Lawmakers Threatenn to Take Over Monetary Policy."

Daily Bell: You want to end the Fed don't you? What would you put in its place?

Mish Shedlock: One word: nothing. The free market can easily set interest rates.

Daily Bell: Do we need government bureaucrats to dictate the production or the price of cement, oranges, automobiles, computers or copper?

Mish Shedlock: Anyone proposing such an insane idea would be laughed out of the room yet we expect a bunch of academics, with no real world experience, to do something far more difficult: set the proper amount of money and the interest charged on it. The idea is as ludicrous a Russian central planners setting steel production levels. Results speak for themselves: a series of economic bubbles and collapses with increasing amplitude in both directions. The result is a shrinking middle class and increasing wealth concentration at the top.

Daily Bell: Does Greenbackerism lead to inflation? If not, why not?

Mish Shedlock: Before there can be intelligent discussion, one must define the terms "Greenbackerism" and also "inflation." Let me ask a simple question: What's more important to the economy, home prices falling from $600,000 to $250,000 or the price of steak going from $4.99 to $5.99 or gasoline from $2.50 to $4.00. People constantly moan about the latter, but economically speaking, the plunge in home prices is far more important. I discussed this at length in "How Far Have Home Prices 'Really' Fallen? HPI and the CPI."

I suspect the answer to your "Greenbackerism" question is, "Yes, eventually," with an emphasis on eventually. It is safe to say, regardless of your definitions, that printing is unsound and ultimately, printing money leads to bigger boom-bust cycles or other economic distortions that crucify the middle class.

Once again, my definition of inflation is an increase in money supply and credit, with credit marked-to-market. Deflation is the opposite.

Let's compare the practicality of my definition vs. a definition that involves prices or a definition that involves money supply in isolation.

If the definition of inflation is a nominal rise in the CPI, then the inflationists have allegedly been correct. However, treasury yields are at record lows, home prices are at record lows, jobs have languished and credit has stalled. Simply put, most of the things one would expect to see in inflation have not happened. The same holds true for those who only look at exploding base money, forever predicting the money will multiply ten times over and treasury yields will soar.

On the other hand, my credit-view of deflation has accurately called for most of these things, including the rise in the price of gold and a collapse in the value of houses. Like Humpty Dumpty, people can define the term inflation however they want, but those who miss the boat on credit are left wondering why the economy is not acting as generally expected by their definition.

Most Austrians completely missed the ramifications of collapsing credit and the collapsing value of credit on bank balance sheets. Similarly, virtually all Keynesians missed the boat on the housing bust. In general terms, Keynesians missed the inevitability of a collapse that must follow a reckless expansion of credit. Only those who focused on credit have been properly aligned with what is actually taking place.

Daily Bell: What's the future for the EU?

Mish Shedlock: No currency union in history has ever survived without there being a fiscal union as well. Since there will not be a fiscal union, the Eurozone must break up. The ideal way would be for Germany and the Northern countries to exit. The painful way will be a piecemeal exit. I expect this to be long and painful.

Daily Bell: How about China?

Mish Shedlock: China is due for a "hard landing" which I define as less than 3.5% growth for the rest of the decade. I expect commodity prices will likely crash and the commodity producing currencies such as Australia and Canada will take a big hit as well.  

The Economist believes China will be the world's largest economy by 2018. I suggest 2030 may be optimistic and Chinese growth will average 3% or less for the rest of the decade. For a discussion of the implications, please see "12 Predictions by Michael Pettis on China; Non-Food Commodity Prices Will Collapse Over Next Three to Four Years; Nails in the Hard Landing Coffin?"

Daily Bell: If China goes into a meltdown, the world faces a full-scale depression. What's your take?

Mish Shedlock: The US will actually fare relatively well in a collapse of China. It is the trade surplus nations and commodity produces that will take the biggest hit as noted in the previous link.

Daily Bell: Where is the US headed?

Mish Shedlock: The US is headed for recession. The US recession will not be as bad as Europe, but corporate earnings will sink like a rock. The US dollar will strengthen much to the dismay of the hyperinflationists. Then, after Europe, China, and Japan take big hits, then and only then will the final plunge in the US dollar occur.

Daily Bell: Where is Japan headed?

Mish Shedlock: Japan is all but guaranteed to blow up before the US. A mere rise in long-term interest rates from 1% to 2% would consume nearly all government revenues. Ironically, I like Japanese equities but only hedged against a plunge in the Yen. After 20-plus years of deflation, Japanese companies have almost no debt but the currency risk is huge.

Daily Bell: Are you confident of your businesses success in the US?

Mish Shedlock: If you mean me personally, yes, pretty much so, but not overconfidently so. I am debt-free. We paid off our mortgage this month. The key will be to catch the turn. I will not be bearish forever.

Daily Bell: Are you thinking of traveling abroad?

Mish Shedlock: Personal difficulties make overseas travel problematic. I am now involved in a fundraiser for ALS research (Lou Gehrig's Disease). My wife is in the late stages and nearly immobile. She has been on a feeding tube for over a year and cannot eat or drink anything, including water. So far, people from at least 22 countries have made donations. I ask everyone to please consider making a contribution. To learn how you can help, please read "My Wife Joanne Has ALS, Lou Gehrig's Disease."

Daily Bell: What do you think of US monetary policy?

Mish Shedlock: It's hopeless. We should get rid of the Fed specifically and all central bankers in general. As noted earlier, central bankers are nothing but serial bubble blowers. The irony is they purport to be "inflation fighters." In reality, central banks are the very cause of inflation. Bernanke even wants a 2% inflation target. Economically speaking, it's crazy. Eventually asset prices and wages do not follow consumer prices and all hell breaks loose, which is precisely where the global economy is today. I have some nice charts of inflation targets and real disposable income in "Huge Problem With Bernanke's 2% Inflation Target Explained in Pictures."

Daily Bell: On US government statistics?

Mish Shedlock: Any statistics that need to be produced, the free market can do better and cheaper. For example, Gallup does monthly surveys on unemployment and they do a very good job. Do we need a mountain of highly paid government bureaucrats to gather unemployment stats? I think not. Most do not believe the stats anyway.

Daily Bell: What's in the future for gold and silver?

Mish Shedlock: Gold is money. When available, the free market has always selected gold as money. Government decree cannot change that fact. Silver, however, has a huge industrial component. Sometimes silver acts like money but most of the time it acts more like a commodity plaything. Would the free market accept gold and silver as money right now if allowed? I don't know but I sure would like to find out. What sets me apart from the Prechter deflationists is my recommendation that people hold 10-30% of their investment capital in gold. I do not have a price target but strongly believe another big surge is coming.

Note that gold does not necessarily respond to movements in the US dollar. For example, the US dollar index is near 80. The dollar index was at 80 in late 2004 and gold was just over $400. If gold is not responding to moves in the dollar then what is it responding to? I suggest gold has responded to central bank efforts to revive credit. It has also responded well to sovereign credit stress.
The Fed wants home prices to rise. The Fed also wants another credit lending spree. Neither happened. Clearly, the Fed can provide liquidity but it cannot determine where (if anywhere) liquidity goes. Since more liquidity efforts are surely on the way, and gold is the likely beneficiary, I highly doubt that gold has peaked. Eventually there will be a huge currency crisis and gold will soar.

Daily Bell: Tell us more about the performance of your firm.

Mish Shedlock: Sitka Pacific manages portfolios that look across asset classes in an effort to generate absolute returns without exposing the portfolio to catastrophic drawdowns. You can find more information including our 6-plus year performance track record at sitkapacific.com.

Daily Bell: What's your investment strategy?

Mish Shedlock: Sitka Pacific is very cautious right now. Our Absolute Return strategy currently has a position in gold, but is otherwise essentially market neutral. Our current mission is risk avoidance with a focus on avoiding the next big decline. We feel risk is high and if we avoid big drawdowns we will more than make up for it by hopping in when valuations are more attractive. To be fair, I said the same thing over a year ago. Sometimes the market has other ideas. That's why we do not use leverage, and we are never net short.

My personal views on risk and valuations are reflected in my post, "Misty Water-Colored Memories, Dirt-Cheap Stocks, and Patient Opportunism."  I also believe there is a strong likelihood of "Negative Returns for a Decade." There are numerous references in the preceding link.

Daily Bell: Do you believe there's a power elite that wants to create global government?

Mish Shedlock: Yes. One can easily see it in Europe. Many are angling for what I call the European "nanny zone." One can also see the idea in various IMF Special Drawing Rights proposals.

Daily Bell: Is that a good idea?

Mish Shedlock: Obviously not. It will fail for the same reasons the Euro will fail. Europe is the big test and I think the Eurozone splinters. Should the Eurozone actually hold together, expect zero growth for at least a decade. Germany will take a huge hit regardless. Either Germany provides more capital, or the Southern states default leaving Germany holding the "euro bag." Expectations that Germany will decouple from the rest of the Eurozone are thus nonsensical.

Daily Bell: What about this tax situation? Why the current emphasis on tax revenue?

Mish Shedlock: Hiking taxes in the midst of a global recession is foolish at best. Europe and the US need work rule reforms and pension reforms, not higher taxes. I strongly support ending collective bargaining of public unions, scrapping Davis-Bacon and all prevailing wage laws and instituting national right-to-work laws. Many US cities are effectively bankrupt by making pension promises that cannot be met. Greece is bankrupt for that reason (and others) as well
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Raising taxes is not the answer. So what's the solution? I have an eight point proposal in "Public Unions Bankrupt Illinois: Unpaid Bills Top $9 Billion as Comptroller Reports 'State Treading Water'; Mish's Eight-Point 'Bold' Plan to Save Illinois."

Daily Bell: Where do you go from here?

Mish Shedlock: I am thinking about writing a book on the direction the US should take. I have lots more ideas. However, the problem is finding the time to do it.

Daily Bell: Thank you for taking time from your busy schedule for this interview, and our best wishes to you and your wife.

Mish Shedlock: Thank you for the invitation.


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Is Facebook the IPO of a Generation?

Is Facebook the IPO of a generation? The much-anticipated initial public offering of the world’s most popular social networking site, Facebook, took place this morning on the NASDAQ. With it, the dreams and technologies of the millenial generation have taken root as a core part not only of American society – but of its formal economy. Already, [...]

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Pros & Cons of Dating a Coworker

In the two months that I've been with my new company, I have gotten to know one of my colleagues who happens to be a single guy around my age. Without going into details, there is a reasonable chance that we may decide to get to know one another on a more personal level in the near future.

We would be incredibly discreet about this development, when and if it were to take place. He has dated somebody at the company before; she's no longer with the firm, but her position necessitated a public disclosure of their relationship (which apparently got very serious before it ended). I am a brand new employee just starting to build a new reputation and image at this company. So basically neither one of us has much to gain from openly dating somebody at work right now.

Anyway, this post is meant to be a more general exploration of the pros and cons of dating somebody from the office. Of course a lot of it depends on how closely you work together - dating your boss is much riskier and more serious than dating somebody in another department or at another location. But here are some ideas off the top of my head:

PROS

  • An exciting distraction from standard office tasks and routine.

  • The opportunity to get to get to know someone outside of a traditional dating setting (i.e. without the pressure of formal dates).

  • Observing a person's behavior and reputation at work - a place where most of us spend at least half of our waking hours and which represents a large part of our identity, yet which usually remains unknown to significant others.

  • Becoming friends first (unless of course you suddenly connect physically after, say, a drunken office Christmas party)

  • The excitement of sharing a secret (assuming at least at some point that you keep the relationship a secret).

CONS

  • Lack of privacy/autonomy due to spending too much time together (especially if you work closely and/or you live together).

  • Awkwardness when having to interact professionally at work in the wake of a breakup or fight.

  • Having to navigate office gossip and politics, which could turn negative.

  • The risk of ostracizing other colleagues or being excluded by colleagues.

  • Human Resources issues; having to transfer departments or turn down promotions in order to avoid conflicts of interest.

  • In a serious relationship, the possibility of facing mutual layoffs or other negative economic circumstances at the same time may need to be considered (if, say, both your incomes are based heavily on one industry or trend).

Meeting somebody at work isn't intrinsically good or bad. People spend more than half their waking hours at work, they typically look their best at work, and so connections are bound to form. Sometimes they may turn romantic, and I'm sure we all know people who are happily together who initially met at work.

Some important things to remember are to make sure that your actions remain entirely within company policy, that you don't make coworkers uncomfortable in any way, that you aren't dating or attempting to date anybody with a spouse or partner, and that the other person doesn't have a past or reputation that may damage your image in the workplace.

Personally I plan to take things VERY slowly with this coworker. I want to get to know him well and feel out his reputation before we start a real dating relationship, and I also want to make sure that I'm really interested before taking on the risks of dating a colleague. It's not the time or place to casually date somebody just because we're both single at attracted to one another. Even if we move forward, I anticipate that we'd keep things a secret for as long as possible.

Have you ever dated somebody at work? If so, did you ever make the relationship public?

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CBS CORP (CBS) (Superstock Investor Stock Scorecard)

CBS Corp (CBS) will report earnings after the close. Estimates are $0.44 versus $0.29. The stock price is fully valued and we would look at other media companies if one was looking to buy a media company.

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US futures (S&P -5.80, DJI -50, NDX -12.25) Asia lower ex China and Europe lower ex CAC. Copper and gold lower with WTI Crude Futures lower. $ is higher vs euro, lower vs. pound and higher vs. yen. US ten-year Treasury Yield -.017.

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Discrimination or Prudent Hiring Practice?

Many employers will not consider applicants who have been unemployed for long periods of time. This has always been the case of course, but in the boom years with unemployment rates at rock bottom, there was good reason to be wary of anybody who hadn't managed to keep or get a job for years on end.

Now that unemployment rates have been hovering just under 10% for the third year in a row, though, more and more "normal" people are finding themselves out of work for months, even years. Still, employers seek to fill positions with those who already have jobs most of the time - or at least with those who haven't been unemployed for long.

Millions of disgruntled unemployed would-be workers are now crying "discrimination," and more than a few states have now introduced legislation to try to curb the most blatant displays of this hiring bias. Specifically, the new laws are designed to prohibit employers from openly discriminating against the unemployed in help-wanted ads or in direct hiring or in screenings by employment agencies.

Unemployed people aren't a federally protected group like homosexuals or those with disabilities; therefore the laws can't prevent employers from refusing to hire somebody who has been unemployed for X number of months. However lawmakers don't want employers openly advertising the fact that they won't consider those applicants, for some reason. That seems kind of pointless to me since those companies are likely to continue not to hire employees for whatever reason they want.

Do you think it's a bad thing that some companies are refusing to consider applicants with more than 6 or 12 months of an employment gap? Recruiters are arguing that they are plagued with thousands of applications for every opening and have to narrow the field somehow. Isn't that just as good of a metric to use as anything on a resume? Or do you think it's wrong in this economy to evaluate people based on their work history (or lack thereof)?

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Why We Got a Target Red Card (And The Dangers Of One-Size-Fits-All Advice)

Perhaps you?ve heard this advice before: Store credit cards are evil! When the clerk at The Gap asks you ?Do you want to save 10% today by opening up a credit card with us?? say, ?no way, that?s stupid! Saving 10% to pay 30% interest!? So it might surprise you that Lauren and I recently opened [...]

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Weekly Portfolio Update (Superstock Investor Morning Matters)

The market was lower this past week. The portfolio is now 92% invested and net long 84% as we have one short one. The portfolio absolute return is now up 517.88%. Short idea Groupon (GRPN) earnings are due after the close.

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Current Mortgage Rates for Thursday, May 17, 2012

Mortgage rates started to rise on positive U.S. economic data yesterday, but ended up reversing course and by the close of the day mortgage rates had actually improved (much to my surprise). The continued anxiety over Europe ended up outweighing possible signs of a firming U.S. economy. Yesterday the Federal Reserve released minutes from their [...]

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Futures Lower But Off The Lows (Superstock Investor Market Matters)

US futures (S&P -5.80, DJI -50, NDX -12.25) Asia lower ex China and Europe lower ex CAC. Copper and gold lower with WTI Crude Futures lower. $ is higher vs euro, lower vs. pound and higher vs. yen. US ten-year Treasury Yield -.017.

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RACKSPACE HOSTING INC (RAX) (Superstock Investor Stock Scorecard)

Rackspace (RAX) will report earnings after the close. Estimates are $0.18 versus $0.10. The stock price is above its price target so we would avoid this name.

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NY Fed: Median Dealer Forecast First Fed Hike in Q3 2014

Surveyed ahead of the late April Fed meeting, Wall Street's biggest banks largely expected the central bank to follow through on its projected path for monetary policy.

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Green Investing: How Your Investments Can Help The Earth

Earth Day is an annual reminder of things we can do as individuals to help preserve our habitat and the resources that sustain us. When we think about living green, recycling, buying locally, or trading in the SUV for a Prius usually come to mind. Not coincidentally, these green practices may result in having more green [...]

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KRAFT FOODS INC (KFT) (Superstock Investor Stock Scorecard)

Kraft Foods (KFT) will report after the close. Estimates are $0.56 versus $0.52. There is about 10% upside which is a fair value for mature growth company like Kraft.

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Screeching Halt in China; Weak Trade Data; Imports and Exports Fall Way Short of Expectations; Credit Crunch Underway; Feeble Forecasts From Pimco, Others

China bulls are in for a multi-year shock because rebalancing from an economy overly dependent on exports is going to be far more painful, and last much longer than most think. Data is coming in much weaker than expected, but I propose this is only the very beginning.

The New York Times reports Data Signal Economic Trouble in China

China announced Thursday that growth in imports had unexpectedly come to a screeching halt in April ? rising just 0.3 percent from the same period a year earlier, compared with expectations for an 11 percent increase. Businesses across the country appeared to lose much of their appetite for products as varied as iron ore and computer chips.

Growth in other sectors appears to be slowing, too, particularly in real estate. Soufun Holdings, a Chinese real estate data provider, released figures Monday showing that residential land sales in the country?s 20 largest cities had fallen 92 percent last week from the week before, as declining prices for apartments have left developers short of cash and reluctant to start further projects.

In a series of interviews over the past week, bankers and senior executives from provinces all over China, in a range of light and heavy industries, cited a broad deterioration in business conditions. Two of them said that some tax agencies in smaller cities had been telling companies to inflate their sales and profits to make local economic growth look less weak than it really was, while reassuring the companies that their actual tax bills would be left unchanged.

There are early signs of a credit crunch, at least among private sector companies. Many seem to be asking their suppliers for more time to pay debts and complaining of cash flow problems. Zhang Jinmei, the sales manager at Qitele Group, a company that makes playground equipment in the coastal city of Wenzhou, said that local investment and lending pools there were starting to charge higher interest rates for loans, a sign of worries about creditworthiness.

Imports and Exports Fall Way Short of Expectations

The Financial Times reports China trade: warning signals.

Whichever way you look at it, China?s latest set of trade figures is bad news. Not only did both exports and imports fall short of expectations, they missed by quite a way.

Although the first half of 2012 was expected to be a tough one, analysts say action is needed soon if the Q3 rebound many have been pinning their hopes on is going to happen at all.

If the large jump in the trade surplus is the symptom, the economic illnesses look multiple.

Exports have fallen to Europe for the second month in a row, which, from a trade perspective, makes this a low-point since the opening depths of economic crisis.

That Chinese imports have fallen even faster is the greater worry. Many had hoped that Chinese shoppers (and builders) would rescue the rest of the world with a voracious appetite for everything. But that seems not to be the case, at least not until the credit taps are turned back on.

Easily Predictable

All of this was easily predictable yet most did not see this coming and fewer still still see what is ahead. For example please consider this feeble China forecast by PIMCO.

China?s slowdown may deepen as policy makers unwind the excesses of a record credit boom while only gradually increasing stimulus, leaving 2012 growth at the weakest in 13 years, Pacific Investment Management Co. says.

?The economy is unlikely to bottom until the third quarter,? Ramin Toloui, Pimco?s global co-head of emerging markets portfolio management in Singapore, said in e-mailed comments May 13.

Pimco, which oversees the world?s largest bond fund, sees Chinese growth this year in the ?mid-7 percent range,? a pace unseen since 1999. Its call is still lower than that of banks from Citigroup Inc. and JPMorgan Chase & Co. to Bank of America Corp. and UBS AG, which all pared their forecasts after April economic data were released last week.

Bottom When?

Note the feeble forecasts by Pimco, Citigroup, JP Morgan, Bank of America, and UBS.

And what's with this bottom call by Pimco in the third quarter? I have to ask, third quarter of what year? 2020?

What a bunch of collective bunk!

I am sticking with 3.5% average growth for the rest of the decade, an idea proposed by Michael Pettis in a bet with The Economist. For details, please see 12 Predictions by Michael Pettis on China; Non-Food Commodity Prices Will Collapse Over Next Three to Four Years; Nails in the Hard Landing Coffin?

Mike "Mish" Shedlock
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Whose Goodwill Is It?

The IRS takes a dim view of transactions where the claim of a personal goodwill sale produces a tax result too good to be true. Increasing numbers of baby boomers will be looking to retire in the near future. This includes entrepreneurs who have developed successful businesses or professional practices. Many of them will pass their [...]

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5 New Lies That The Federal Reserve Is Telling The American People

The Federal Reserve says that everything is going to be okay.  The Fed says that unemployment is going to go down, inflation is going to remain low and economic growth is going to steadily increase.  Do you believe them this time?  As you will see later in this article, Federal Reserve Chairman Ben Bernanke has [...]

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Futures In Trouble (Superstock Investor Market Matters)

US futures (S&P -13.80, DJI -123, NDX -23.50) Asia and Europe lower. Copper and gold lower with WTI Crude Futures lower. $ is higher vs euro, higher vs. pound and lower vs. yen. US ten-year Treasury Yield -.039.

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Current Mortgage Rates for Monday, May 14, 2012

Last week we saw current mortgage rates set new record lows before ticking up slightly on Friday.  The record lows were not so much data-driven (there were very few economic reports last week) as they were driven by fear.  This week there are a number of economic reports scheduled, but fears over the situation in [...]

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KRAFT FOODS INC (KFT) (Superstock Investor Stock Scorecard)

Kraft Foods (KFT) will report after the close. Estimates are $0.56 versus $0.52. There is about 10% upside which is a fair value for mature growth company like Kraft.

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Green Investing: How Your Investments Can Help The Earth

Earth Day is an annual reminder of things we can do as individuals to help preserve our habitat and the resources that sustain us. When we think about living green, recycling, buying locally, or trading in the SUV for a Prius usually come to mind. Not coincidentally, these green practices may result in having more green [...]

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Europe Lower On Greece Concerns (Articles That Matter)

This is now the third spring in a row that Greeece remains an issue and it is weighing on U.S. futures this morning.

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Europe Lower On Greece Concerns (Articles That Matter)

This is now the third spring in a row that Greeece remains an issue and it is weighing on U.S. futures this morning.

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Cash Cow Liquidity Comparison: Where's the Cash and Where's the Debt? A Look at the Top 50 Companies

In light of  renewed banter about corporations being flush with cash following Apple's stellar earnings, I thought it would be instructive to take a look at the top 50 companies by market cap in the following ways:

  1. Debt and liabilities vs. cash
  2. Debt and liabilities vs. cash plus short-term investments
  3. Debt and liabilities vs. cash plus both short-term and long-term investments 

With thanks to Ross Perez at Tableau Software for compiling the data for my idea, please consider the following interactive graph.

Note the ability to change the "cash" metric in the upper right of the graph.


<a href="#"><img alt="Cash and DebtAmong the Top 50 US Companies by Market Cap " src="http://public.tableausoftware.com/static/images/26/26FQY7K79/1_rss.png" style="border: none" /></a>

Liquidity Comparison

Richard Shaw has an excellent article on Seeking Alpha that discusses cash, short-term investments, and long-term investments and what they mean: Comparing Liquidity Of Microsoft And Apple And Both Compared To Other Cash Rich Companies.

Bottom line: net cash on hand at the top 50 companies is negative to the tune of $1.479 trillion. If one considers short-term investments to be cash equivalents, then net cash is negative $1.251. Only if long-term investments are included does the number go positive.

Clearly there is not as much "sideline cash" as most are led to believe. By the way, the notion of sideline cash is bogus in the first place.

No Such Thing As Idle Sideline Cash

For those who want a second opinion, John Hussman has written about sideline cash on several occasions. Please consider There's No Such Thing as Idle Cash on the Sidelines.

The amount of "sideline cash" has been rising for years and will keep doing so unless money supply contracts. Yet the S&P 500 was clobbered in 2008 and early 2009 anyway. Why?

Stock prices rise and fall on sentiment changes every single day, not because money flows into or out of the market.

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Why A Greek Exit From The Euro Would Mean The End Of The Eurozone

What was considered unthinkable a few months ago has now become probable.  All over the globe there are headlines proclaiming that a Greek exit from the euro is now a real possibility.  In fact, some of those headlines make it sound like it is practically inevitable.  For example, Der Spiegel ran a front page story [...]

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Phenomenal Thoughts ? Once The Car Manages Whether We Receive Whiplash Compensation

A number of high-end auto-manufacturers today have developed crash avoidance systems that need to be seen to be believed. Using positioning systems and sophisticated software programs they’ve been in a position to programme the car so it automatically stops safely whether the driver is paying attention or otherwise. In other words, the sensors will determine [...]

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Spanish Bond Auction Works But Spanish Equity Market Drops Suddenly (Articles That Matter)

The Spanish bond auction worked but the equity market is getting hammered. What does this mean?

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Tips On How To Think Of Theming In Regards To Linen Hire

You will find that early spring is one of the most favoured times in the year for planning a wedding ceremony. Anytime March/April roll around we think of rejuvenation and we need to swiftly shrug off all of the dark, dreary days of the winter season. Whenever we get married we feel as though we [...]

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Another Successful Webinar

I wanted to send a thank you to all of you who attended last night?s webinar ?Rebalancing to Your Asset Allocation?. We had another great turnout of enthusiastic investors who share our same principles of building wealth and getting on with their lives. I really appreciate all of the questions at the end; we have some very smart individuals building long term wealth.

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Fed Comments Suggests QE3 Remains Unlikely, Despite Economic Uncertainty

In their first comments since last week's monetary policy-setting meeting, central bankers appeared in strong agreement that expanding the balance sheet with more bond buying is pretty unlikely.

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And Then I Wrecked My Car

In case you haven't been following, it has been quite a week for me. I found out I am getting laid off, scrambled to fill my week with interviews and meetings, initiated talks with HR regarding my severance package, had lunch and dinner and happy hour plans every day, went on four dates, and that was all before I left for a two day interview marathon with my hopefully-soon-to-be-new-employer where I negotiated an offer which I have yet to receive in writing.

I slept maybe 5 hours each night, and my schedule was back to back to back with work obligations, social obligations, necessary errands such as dry cleaning and doctor appointments and Apple genius appointments, and so on. I wanted to slow down but I had no choice; I was headed to my parents' for a week on Saturday, so I had to get all that stuff crammed in.

So after my ridiculous whirlwind of what may have been the most stressful week of my life, I woke up at 8am Saturday, packed a bag in less than 40 minutes, and hit the road for a much needed relaxing week back home for Christmas. All I wanted to do was get home as quickly as possible so that I could relax.

A couple of hours outside of Dallas I was going about 80 mph and passing an 18 wheeler in the left lane when my youngest dog decided to leap into my lap. She jostled my right arm so that the wheel - and car - swerved right toward the truck. I overcorrected left as I tried to fling her into the passenger seat, and I lost control of the car. I swerved back and forth for several seconds and almost regained control, but when I realized I couldn't I headed for the median. Luckily there was about 20 feet of grass before a big concrete retaining wall, and I figured I could maybe just coast to a stop in the grass.

No such luck. When my front left wheel hit the mud, the car started to spin. I stayed calm, oddly, and remember taking a deep breath and just thinking, resigned: "shit."

My car slammed into the retaining wall, the impact occurring on the front right side of the car. It's actually a good thing I spun around or the impact would have been right by my driver door. The airbags didn't go off, and I briefly thought maybe the car would be drivable and I could just get back on the road. But then I hopped out and observed the smashed front of the car, sans bumper, with liquid pouring out and steam rising up from the crumpled hood.

Several cars stopped to make sure I was OK, which I was. I called the police, then my mom, then AAA, and a nice man waited with me until the firetruck arrived. The EMTs left as soon as they verified that I really wasn't hurt, but the firemen insisted on blocking the left lane, which caused traffic to back up, even though we were well off the road. It's protocol, apparently.

One of the firemen talked to my AAA representative and asked if they could take me to a nearby gas station to wait for the tow truck driver, which could take up to an hour. So me and my dogs piled into the firetruck. Then they decided to take me to the station instead, where at least there is a TV - since I'd be waiting for my dad for several hours they thought I'd be most comfortable there.

They knew the wrecker that was likely to be called, so they radioed him to direct him to tow the car without me and bring it to the station for me to sign the ticket. He did, and then the firemen left me - alone! - at the fire station to wait for my parents. They wrote their cell numbers on the white board and headed home to spend time with their families. After a few photos with my dogs by the firetrucks and uniforms, I plopped down to update Facebook and start making calls.

But then one of the firemen showed back up, with his wife in tow. They wanted to take me to lunch, and I graciously accepted. They drove me and the dogs to their house to let my dogs hang out in their backyard, then we went to lunch at a cute country diner, and then they took me to the wreck yard to get my suitcase out of the car (which I'd forgotten to do earlier when they came by with the car). By the time we got back to the station my dad was only 20 minutes away. I had just enough time to call Progressive and file the insurance claim over the phone before he picked me up.

In short everyone was incredibly nice and supportive, from the AAA folks to the insurance company to the local fire and rescue people and those who stopped to make sure I was OK. I slipped into the back seat of my dad's car in the closest thing to shock/coma that I've ever experienced, and I slept for most of the next two days.

So here I am back in action. I found out my car has been deemed a total loss, and I'll get just over $13K for the 2006 Volvo I paid $23K for five years ago (it was slightly used when I bought it). I just wish I hadn't just paid for $2K in maintenance earlier this month. But I AM grateful that I somehow remembered to renew my car insurance the day before leaving for my trip. If I'd forgotten then my insurance would have been expired by 2 days when the accident occurred.

Of course I am most grateful that no one else was involved and that somehow I managed to steer away from the heavy traffic when I lost control. Any accident involving other cars would have been completely my fault, and I'm not sure I could have handled that on top of everything else.

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Europe Rebounds (Articles That Matter)

Intense selling of Europe has reversed course so far today with U.S. futures positive.

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How Home Security Alarm Systems For The Home Can Assist Your Loved Ones

For individuals who don’t know the concept, home alarm systems refer to having an alarm at your home that’s connected to a company that monitors its activities for you. If your alarm is tripped, the individual at the company will immediately call police, fire, medical personnel, or whoever else is necessary. In some cases, the [...]

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JPMORGAN CHASE & CO (JPM) (BlueHawk Research Stock Scorecard)

JP Morgan (JPM) will report earnings on Friday before the open and estimates are for $1.15 versus $1.28. The stock has pulled back in the last few days but is still near its price target and we would avoid this name right now depsite our love of Jamie Dimon.

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MICROSOFT CORP (MSFT) (BlueHawk Research Stock Scorecard)

Microsoft (MSFT) will report after the close. Estimates are $0.58 versus $0.61. So year over year growth is slow. However, the price target is still far away and we will get to hear about the update for Windows 8.

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Should the Pace of UK?s Deficit Reduction be Slower?

Since coming to power, the Conservatives have made reducing the UK?s record peace time deficit a high priority. It has been argued that drastic action was necessary to avoid the UK?s debt becoming unmanageable. David Cameron argues without rapid spending cuts, the UK could be facing rising interest rates and the prospect of debt default, [...]

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